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Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage.
If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it.
Go out and get busy."
~ Dale Carnegie ...
September 25, 2006
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From the Inside Out...
Yes You Can!...
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speaking, I simply ASSUME that the best is always happening in my
life; whether it's enough money, a comfortable and nurturing place
to live, whatever. In this same line of thinking, I see myself protected
and guided by a squadron of guardian angels ... so I seem to KNOW
when it's time to let go of a situation because it's not good for
me, and when to embark on a path that is Right.
~ Chelle Thompson, Editor
From the Inside Out
THE "I CAN'T" FUNERAL
fourth grade classroom looked like many others I had seen in the
past. Students sat in five rows of six desks. The teacher's desk
was in front and faced the students. The bulletin board featured
student work. In most respects it appeared to be a typically traditional
elementary classroom. Yet something seemed different that day I
entered it for the first time. There seemed to be an undercurrent
was a veteran small-town Michigan schoolteacher only two years away
form retirement. In addition she was a volunteer participant in
a countrywide staff development project I had organized and facilitated.
The training focused on language arts ideas that would empower students
to feel good about themselves and take charge of their lives. Donna's
job was to attend training sessions and implement the concepts being
presented. My job was to make classroom visitations and encourage
took an empty seat in the back of the room and watched. All the
students were working on a task, filling a sheet of notebook paper
with thoughts and ideas. The ten-year-old student next to me was
filling her page with "I Can'ts".
can't kick the soccer ball past second base." "I
can't do long division with more than three numerals." "I
can't get Debbie to like me." Her
page was half full and she showed no signs of letting up. She worked
on with determination and persistence.
walked down the row glancing in student's papers. Everyone was writing
sentences, describing things they couldn't do. "I can't do
ten push-ups." "I
can't hit one over the left hand fence." "I
can't eat only one cookie."
this time the activity engaged my curiosity, so I decided to check
with the teacher to see what was going on. As I approached her,
I noticed that she too was busy writing. I felt it best not to interrupt.
"I can't get John's mother to come for a teacher conference."
can't get my daughter to put gas in the car." "I
can't get Alan to use words instead of fists."
in my efforts to determine why students and teacher were dwelling
on the negative instead of writing the more positive "I Can"
statements, I returned to my seat and continued my observations.
Students wrote for another ten minutes. Most filled their page.
Some started another. "Finish
the one you're on and don't start a new one," were the instructions
Donna used to signal the end of the activity. Students were then
instructed to fold the papers in half and bring them to the front.
When the students reached their teacher's desk, they placed their
"I Can't" statements into an empty shoe box.
all of the students papers were collected, Donna added hers. She
put the lid on the box, tucked it under her arm and headed out the
door and down the hall. Students followed the teacher. I followed
the students. Halfway down the hallway the procession stopped. Donna
entered the custodian's room rummaged around and came out with a
shovel. Shovel in one hand, shoe box in the other, Donna marched
the students out to the school to the farthest corner of the playground.
There they began to dig.
were going to bury their "I Can'ts"! The digging took
over ten minutes because most of the fourth graders wanted a turn.
When the hole approached three fee deep, the digging ended. The
box of "I Can'ts" was placed in a position at the bottom
of the hole and then quickly covered with dirt.
one 10 and 11-year-olds stood around the freshly dug rave site.
Each had at least one page full of "I Can'ts" in the shoe
box, four feet under. So did their teacher.
this point Donna announced, "Boys and girls, please join hands
and bow your heads." The students complied. They quickly formed
a circle around the grave, creating a bond with their hands. They
lowered their heads and waited. Donna delivered the eulogy.
we gather here today to honor the memory of 'I Can't.' While he
was with us here on earth, he touched, the lives or everyone, some
more than others. His name unfortunately, has been spoken in every
public building- school, city halls, state capitols, and yes, even
The White House.
have provided 'I Can't' with a final resting place and a headstone
that contained his epitaph. His is survived by his brothers and
sisters, 'I Can,' 'I Will' and 'I'm Going to Right Away.' They are
not as well known as their famous relative and are certainly not
as strong and powerful yet. Perhaps some day, with your help, they
will make an even bigger mark on the world.
'I Can't' rest in peace and may everyone present pick up their lives
and move forward in his absence. Amen."
I listened to the eulogy I realized that these students would never
forget this day. The activity was symbolic, a metaphor for life.
It was a right brain experience that would stick in the unconscious
and conscious mind forever.
"I Can'ts", burying them and hearing the eulogy
showed a major educational effort on this part of the teacher. And
she wasn't done yet. At the conclusion of the eulogy she turned
the students around, marched them back into the classroom and held
celebrated the passing of "I Can't" with cookies, popcorn
and fruit juices. As part of the celebration, Donna cut a large
tombstone from butcher paper. She wrote the words "I Can't"
at the top and put RIP in the middle. The date was added at the
paper tombstone hung in Donna's classroom for the remainder of the
year. On those rare occasions when a student forgot and said, "I
Can't", Donna simply pointed to the RIP sign. The student then
remembered that "I Can't" was dead and chose to rephrase
wasn't one of Donna's students. She was one of mine. Yet that day
I learned an enduring lesson from her.
years later, whenever I hear the phrase, "I Can't," I
see images of that fourth grade funeral. Like the students, I remember
that "I Can't" is dead.
Phillip B. Childs, A Course in Miracles Online
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Yes You Can!
SAVE MONEY PAINLESSLY
guru Jean Chatzky knows her latest book, Pay
It Down: From Debt to Wealth on $10 a Day, centers
on a gimmick. The thing is, gimmicks work at least when it
comes to our often-irrational relationship with money.
promises financial freedom for anyone who can scrounge up an extra
'tenner' each day what you might spend on lunch, a car wash,
a movie ticket. Someone who might feel hopeless at the prospect
of paying off $8,000 in credit card debt can embrace this one-day-at-a-time
approach, which makes debt repayment seem not only possible, but
almost easy. Its a hook, kind of like no carbs
is a hook, says Chatzky, financial editor for NBCs Today
Show. This is a problem we need to get our hands around.
. . We need some sort of mental game we can play with ourselves
that will help us solve the problem.
we were entirely logical, of course, we wouldnt need hooks
or gimmicks or any of the little self-delusions that in reality
can be so helpful in giving ourselves a financial cushion. Since
were not Mr. Spock, though, savings tricks can prove mighty
helpful. Here are some of the things MSN Money readers say they
do to get themselves to put aside a little extra:
Pad your accounts. If you use personal finance software, you
can just enter a check to yourself for $300 or $500, or $1,000,
or whatever you want your pad to be. The check neednt actually
exist or ever be cashed, but the software will treat it as an outstanding
obligation and deduct it from your balance. You
can do something similar even if you still balance your checkbook
by hand. What I have done is to add $300 to my checking account,
but not include it into the balance, wrote Gregory Hannon,
a utilities administrator for the city of Longview, Wash. Basically,
the money is hidden. . . This is my way of making sure that
should it happen that I write a check without the funds (according
to the checking account balance), then I know I am covered.
Cull your bills. Heres a twist on the classic savings
tip of dumping your change in a jar: set aside certain denominations,
such as fives or tens, whenever they make their way into your wallet.
Kirstiepie99 wrote on the Your
message board that she and her husband decided to put any of the
new, colorful $20 bills they received into a jar beside their bed.
A new $20 bill can slip into your hands at any time, so it's
like Russian roulette every time you go to the ATM, she wrote.
We did it for about seven or eight months, and it funded a
trip to Latvia for a month (except for the airfare). It makes saving
Institute a family tax. Dawnna76s family has a
Garfield piggy bank into which each family member deposits $1 a
day. The bank can be raided for the occasional movie or latte, but
mostly the money funds their Christmas shopping. We have around
$1,000 each year in there and we only pay cash for Christmas presents,
Dawnna76 wrote. The nice thing is we usually never
spend (all) the money on presents and whats left, we take
a trip with.
Save your reimbursements. Employers can take weeks or months
to pay you back for the expenses you incurred traveling or entertaining
clients. By then, you may have already paid the bill. Instead of
cashing the check, consider saving it instead. Kirstiepie99
says shes saved $400 so far by depositing expense reimbursement
checks from her job into a separate savings account.
Realize your rebates. Several board posters recommended saving
the money you get from rebates, shopping sales or using coupons
and club cards at grocery stores. Grocery stores tend to make this
easy; they often print on the receipt exactly how much you saved.
You can transfer that exact amount to a savings account or, if you
still write checks, you can make one out for the amount of the savings
and deposit that or simply round up. If
the items ring up to the tune of $33.45 for example, I write a check
for $35, wrote Summerbreeze 98387. When I get
home, the change goes into the kitty (dollars and change both).
Round it up -- or down. Another popular ploy, for those who
balance their checkbooks by hand, is adding or subtracting a few
bucks from each transaction. MadWomanM says she never records
the full amount of her deposit to her checking account and adds
a dollar or five to any checks she writes. If I put in $105.38,
I just write in $100, she wrote, and I always subtract
to the nearest dollar or sometimes, up to five dollars. I end up
(with) a surplus almost every payday, which is handy.
Fee yourself. WryWit uses a slightly different method
that also could work for folks who use personal finance software.
started imposing fees on myself, WryWit wrote. In
my checkbook register, there is a little column for fees. I use
a check mark for $10 and a dash for $1. So for every $100 deposited
I'll short $10, and every outgoing transaction I add a dollar. When
the page is full I add them up and keep a running total at the bottom
of the page. This makes it easy to reconcile the balance at any
time, and when it gets up to a certain point, I transfer it into
Saving raises. Some message board posters save all or part of
every raise they get. Sweetnepenthe has lived on the same
amount of take-home pay for the past eight years, dedicating every
raise to increased retirement contributions and, when those are
maxed out, to savings. ImproperFraction
saves half of each raise, noting that it doesnt feel like
deprivation. Inflation is a gradual erosion of my dollar's
buying power that I endure and make spending adjustments for throughout
the year, the poster wrote. But my pay raises dont
creep up; rather they are sudden events. . . So I'll save
half of this sudden jump in income and add the rest to my spending
funds. This has worked quite well for me throughout my working years;
I am now in the position where the amount of money I save exceeds
the amount of money I spend.
Divide and conquer your paycheck. Other posters save an amount
equal to an hours pay each day, or each week if theyre
just getting started. I
have an automated transaction to pull $26.18 out of my account every
week, wrote MusketeersPlus2, a union worker whose raises
are known in advance. I've even already set it up to change
to $27.10" when his next pay hike kicks in.
Pay yourself last. The usual (and excellent) money tip is to
pay yourself first by making sure a certain amount of your paycheck
is deposited into savings or investment accounts. But Carolina
Girl also pays herself last. I
keep a pretty close check on monthly expenses, she posted.
If we have extra money due to less expenses (received a raise
or bonus, gas bill goes down in the summer, less entertainment due
to busy schedules, etc.), the extra is transferred to a savings
account. I don't change my spending just because there's extra money.
Pulliam Weston's column appears every Monday and
Thursday, exclusively on MSN Money. She also answers
reader questions in the Your
Money message board.
QUEEN OF THE
Nevis Peak, West Indies
isn't just one half of a nation along with its larger sister island,
St. Kitts. This fertile volcanic speck in the northern Leeward
Islands is a unique destination in its own right. Theres
something about this small, sombrero-shaped island that grabs
you. The charm and tranquility take you back to a time when things
were simpler, when life was more peaceful, when stress was just
a word, not a way of life. This 36-square-mile island lies near
the top of the Lesser Antilles archipelago, about 200 miles south
of Puerto Rico, and just west of Antigua. The island is approximately
7 miles long and 5 miles wide, with natural vegetation that is
unparalleled. Green and serene, Nevis is truly one of the remaining
unspoiled places and proudly carries the name, "Queen
of the Caribees." From the top of the 3,232-foot Nevis
Peak to the depths of the clear waters offshore, there is a world
of flora and fauna to be explored amidst the sights and sounds
of Nevis' lush rainforest trails. In the hills, the comical vervet
(French for "green coat") monkeys chatter and scamper;
in the sea, the whales cruise by. Stroll around and see the architecture
of eras gone by: churches, windmills, and refurbished Great Houses.
island is covered with the ruins of the sugar plantation era,
which declined in the late 1800s after slavery was abolished and
the sugar beet created competition for sugar cane. Over the years,
volunteer groups and researchers have come to the island to explore
the history of the old buildings and record them for future generations.
Several archaeology projects led by university researchers from
England and the United States continue each year. Its 10,000 residents
are friendly and helpful, ready to make new friends and welcome
back regular visitors. Nevis is special, a place that will seduce
you, and tug at your heart strings long after you leave.
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had a New Hampshire Congresswoman ask for an aisle seat on the
airplane so that her hair wouldn't get messed up by being near
got a call from a Candidate's Staffer, who wanted to go to Capetown.
I started to explain the length of the flight and the passport
information. He interrupted me with, "I'm not trying to make
you look stupid, but Capetown is in Massachusetts." Without
trying to make him look like the stupid one, I calmly explained,
"Cape Cod is in Massachusetts, Capetown is in Africa."
His response ...(click) ??
Senior Vermont Congressman called, furious about a Florida package
we did. I asked what was wrong with the vacation in Orlando. He
said he was expecting an ocean-view room. I tried to explain that
is not possible, since Orlando is in the middle of the state.
He replied, "Don't lie to me. I looked on the map, and Florida
is a very thin state!!!"
got a call from a Lawmakers Wife who asked, "Is it possible
to see England from Canada?" I said, "No." She
said, "But they look so close on the map."
Aide for a US Cabinet Member once called and asked if they could
rent a car in Dallas. When I pulled up the reservation, I noticed
they only had a 1-hour lay-over in Dallas. When I asked him why
he wanted to rent a car, he said, "I heard Dallas was a big
airport, and we will need a car to drive between the gates to
Illinois Congresswoman called last week. She needed to know how
it was possible that her flight from Detroit left at 8:20am and
got into Chicago at 8:33am. I tried to explain that Michigan was
an hour ahead of Illinois, but she could not understand the concept
of time zones. Finally, I told her the plane went very fast, and
she bought that!
New York lawmaker called and asked, "Do airlines put your
physical description on your bag so they know who's luggage belongs
to who? " I said, "No, why do you ask?" She replied,
"Well, when I checked in with the airline, they put a tag
on my luggage that said (FAT), and I'm overweight, I think that
is very rude!" After putting her on hold for a minute while
I "looked into it" (I was actually laughing) I came
back and explained the city code for Fresno, CA is (FAT), and
that the airline was just putting a destination tag on her luggage.
Senator called and said, "I need to fly to Pepsi-Cola, FL.
Do I have to get on one of those little computer planes?"
I asked if he meant fly to Pensacola, FL on a commuter plane.
He said, "Yeah, whatever!!"
Senior Senator called and had a question about the documents he
needed in order to fly to China. After a lengthy discussion about
passports, I reminded him he needed a visa. "Oh no I don't,
I've been to China many times and never had to have one of those."
I double checked and sure enough, his stay required a visa. When
I told him this he said, "Look, I've been to China four times
and every time they have accepted my American Express!"
New Mexico Congressman called to make reservations, "I want
to go from Chicago to Rhino, New York" The agent was at a
loss for words. Finally, the agent: "Are you sure that's
the name of the town?" "Yes, what flights do you have?"
replied the man. After some searching, the agent came back with,
"I'm sorry, sir, I've looked up every airport code in the
country and can't find a Rhino anywhere." The man retorted,
"Oh don't be silly! Everyone knows where it is. Check your
map!" The agent scoured a map of the state of New York and
finally offered, "You don't mean Buffalo, do you?" "That's
it! I knew it was a big animal"????
you know why the government is in the shape that it's in!
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