SO ... WHAT DID I LEARN?

Photo:
"Solitude Standing Still" LeMonde.Fr
I
learned that sometimes it is easier to share my soul with the whole world
Than
it is to share it with someone intimate
I
learned that aspiring toward my desires takes true commitment
And,
a solid belief that my goals have legitimacy
I
learned that asking for understanding is sometimes impossible
But,
giving understanding is not
I
learned that trying to prepare others for what lies ahead,
May
confuse their innocence and thwart their progress
I
learned that saying no to someone else, even when they object
Can
help them learn to say no in their own lives, when need be
I
learned that wanting and needing are hard to separate
But
the difference is of great importance
I
learned that I am stronger than I thought I was
And,
that I need both strength and insight to function
I
learned that I will not always feel positive
But
that, my down days give me perspective
I
learned that patience takes self-discipline
But,
its rewards are immense
I
learned that laughing after making a mistake
Does
not erase its valuable lesson
I
learned that letting someone elses laughter reach my heart
Is
just as rewarding as saying something to make them laugh
I
learned that appreciation of others, of life and of challenges
Causes
each day to be full and fruitful
I
learned that it is good to expect better of ones self
But,
not so good to stress over petty details
I
learned that living is not one huge moment of joy
It
is the travel, and the unravel the discovery of life,
That
builds foundations for joy and for loving and living
~By
N.O. Tate (Reprinted with Permission)