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Two men, both seriously ill, occupied
the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in
his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid
from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window.
The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.
The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives
and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement
in the military service, where they had been on vacation.
Every
afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit
up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate
all the things he could see outside the window.
The
man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods
where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all
the activity and color of the world outside.
The
window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans
played on the water while children sailed their model boats.
Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color
and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the
distance.
As
the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail,
the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes
and imagine the picturesque scene.
One
warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade
passing by.
Although
the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see it.
In his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed
it with descriptive words.
Days
and weeks passed.
One
morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their
baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window,
who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and
called the hospital attendants to take the body away.
As
soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he
could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to
make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable,
she left him alone.
Slowly,
painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his
first look at the real world outside.
He
strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the
bed.
It
faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have
compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful
things outside this window.
The
nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even
see the wall.
She
said, "Perhaps he just wanted to help you to feel better
by hearing what he could see with his heart."
Epilogue:
Happiness
is a matter of choice. It is a positive attitude that we
consciously choose to express. It is not a gift that gets
delivered to our doorstep each morning, nor does it come
flying in through the window. The pursuit of happiness is
an inward journey. Our minds are like programs, awaiting
the code that will determine our behavior like bank
vaults awaiting our deposits. If we regularly deposit positive,
encouraging, and uplifting thoughts, we will find that there
is much to rejoice about.
There
is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite
our own situations. Shared grief is half the sorrow, but
happiness when shared, is doubled. If you want to feel rich,
just count all the things you have in your life that money
can't buy. People will forget what you said ... People will
forget what you did ... But people will never forget how
you made them feel ... Make someone happy, share a kind
word today.
~Author Unknown
(Contributed by Phyllis who lives in Santa Fe, New Mexico)
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