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Contrary
to popular belief, Mother's Day was not conceived and fine-tuned
in the boardroom of Hallmark. Motherhood has always been celebrated.
In prehistoric tribes the mother Goddess was worshiped as
the creator of life. Female goddess figures are found in many
archeological digs. In Egypt, Isis was the Queen of Heaven
who ruled over all matters concerning mothering. In ancient
Greece Rhea was revered as the mother goddess and in ancient
Rome it was Hera, the jealous wife of Zeus, and another mother
goddess known as Cybele. Most mothering festivals in early
history were in the springtime to celebrate the rebirth of
the land and the beginning of the most fertile time of the
year. These festivities honored the goddess in all women.
During
the 1600's, England celebrated a day called "Mothering
Sunday." Mothering Sunday was celebrated on the Sunday
of Lent (the 40-day period leading up to Easter), to honor
the mothers of England. During this time many of England's
poor worked as servants for the wealthy. Most of the servant's
jobs were located far from home, so the servants would live
at their employer's homes. On Mothering Sunday, the servants
were encouraged to return home and spend the day with their
mothers. A special cake, called the mothering cake, was often
brought along to provide a festive touch. As Christianity
spread throughout Europe, the celebration changed to honor
the "Mother Church" the spiritual power that
gave people life and protected them from harm. Over time,
the church festival became combined with Mothering Sunday
and people began honoring their mothers as well as the church.
Across
the ocean in Boston, Massachusetts, the first Mother's
Day Peace Proclamation in 1870 was penned by Julia Ward
Howe, social reformer and poet who also wrote the words to
the "Battle Hymn of the Republic." It was a rallying
cry for women to press for peace and called for women to leave
their homes to seek peaceful solutions to international affairs.
This tradition spread, and was later organized in other areas
of the country as well.
In
1907, Anna Jarvis took Howe's idea a step further and began
to campaign for a nationally recognized Mother's Day. In the
late nineteenth century, Jarvis's own mother had tried to
establish "Mother's Friendship Days" as a way to
heal the scars of the Civil War. Persuading her mother's church
to celebrate Mother's Day on the anniversary of Jarvis's mother's
death, the second Sunday in May, our Mother's Day holiday
was born. By 1911, Mother's Day was being celebrated in almost
every state in the country. On 9th of May 1914, President
Woodrow Wilson made the official proclamation that Mother's
Day would be a national holiday to be celebrated annually
on the second Sunday in May.
AROUND
THE WORLD:
More
than forty-six countries around the globe have a special day
when they pay tribute to mothers. England for instance, celebrates
Mothers Day on the fourth
Sunday of Lent. Mother's Day is not celebrated on the same
date in all countries. In fact, some countries, such as Ethiopia,
do not celebrate Mother's Day at all. Denmark, Finland, Italy,
Turkey, Australia and Belgium celebrate Mother's Day on the
second Sunday in May, just like the United States.
In
Cameroon, Mother's Day is celebrated on the last Sunday in
May. On that day, mothers are chosen to lead the worship service
in Lutheran churches. In Mexico, Mother's Day is celebrated
on May 10th. It is very common for mothers to be serenaded
the night before with mariachis or other types of music. In
schools, children prepare dances, poems, songs, plays and
presents to honor their mothers. It is a popular day to treat
mother to a dinner out or for someone else to prepare a special
dinner at home.
In
Egypt, Lebanon and most other Arab nations, Mother's Day is
celebrated on the 21st of March. Families usually gather for
a special celebration and give gifts to their mother to honor
her. In Egypt, an "ideal mother" is selected and
honored for that year.
Both
Argentina and India celebrate Mother's Day in October. In
Argentina, it is the second Sunday of the month, while in
India a 10-day festival is held in honor of mothers in early
October.
Mother's
Day is celebrated on December 22nd in Indonesia. It is common
to send flowers or clean the house for mother on this day.
A special dinner is prepared to honor her as well.
In
Taiwan, the flowers most often associated with Mother's Day
are the carnation and day lily. It is common to wear flowers
representing one's mother, red if their mother is alive and
white if their mother has passed away. Some people wear two
flowers, one for their own mother and one for their mother-in-law.
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